CHAPTER 14: Reducing or Eliminating Alimony with the will of iron

CHAPTER 14: Reducing or Eliminating Alimony with the will of iron

Hell has no words to describe the place where you are in love yet there is no one to love you. She in fact wants to move her lover right into your house. She wants him to be with your kids and sleep in your bed. If this is not a maddening thought I don't know a person that could possibly disengage their mind from these thoughts. He might be an angel, but to you he is the devil incarnate. Now to again do something it makes no sense in your emotion mind to do. Let him in and catch them in the act.

What the HELL are you talking about? You might be saying. Why the hell would you let this guy breathe the same air you breathe? In fact you have a bullet with his name in graved on it. Well, the answer is simple and always the same. Money! Your relationship is gone. Revenge is for the lord. This process is about getting on with your life an you can not do that is you just want vengeance. It is also a good reminders that vengeance is best in the form of a more successful and fruitful life. You can not do that if the person that ruined your life can continue to do so.

The point is get proof, pictures and whatever is iron clad proof not to yourself, but a judge. Ask your lawyer what you need. If your agreement is not yet signed. You may have time ask. This evidence is a perfect negotiating item. IF you need to buddy buddy up with this new guy. Smile and nod. It's about screwing him over. Really, the truth is a relationship made out of a secret love affirm rarely lasts longer then the money that fueled it. Life sets in and people have to go to work. The same half-a$$ed effort given in your marriage will be the same half-a$$ed effort given in the relationship. Remember, your spouse sent all there energy doing what ever they wanted and I out they spent anytime improving there chances out in the real world other then trying to get whatever they can from you.

So what type of money? Possible any amount of Alimony that you would have been obligated to pay. Well, what if you live in a “No Fault State”? No fault does not mean truly no fault. Alimony has many factors that play into the number. Is there a calculation? NO! So where does it come from? It's a negotiated number, so it can be everything or as would be more beneficial nothing. In the eyes of a court evidence of cheating and spending on cheating can show your spouse was not making any attempt in the relationship and deserves nothing more then her new Boy Toy. I would suggest not rewarding infidelity and making sure you use the blatant display of affection to your benefit.

*** USE AT YOUR OWN RISK. I am not a lawyer and this is not to be construed as legal advice. For any legal decision see the proper legal representative. You are the master of your soul.